Sunday Morning Sex

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This post could very well go over like a lead balloon…….in my house. I am prepared for that. After all, it’s my brain that thought it up, and The Man knew full well what he was getting into 13 years ago. So there. I’m just banking on the fact that he doesn’t read my blog…lol.

And so I go on…..

It’s now, Sunday morning, and I’ve had a lot on my plate the past week or so. Haven’t been much ‘in the mood’. Lots of apologies….not excuses….just apologies, because I simply don’t have the energy. And maybe lack the motivation too. Honestly, those could be one in the same, as far as I’m concerned. I’m tired, my roots are gray, my bones hurt…‘bringing sexy back’ is not a priority. You get it.

But now it’s Sunday. And our usual, “let’s-feed-the-kids-early-breakfast, set-them-up with-cartoons-and-lock-the door-for-half-an-hour” is LOOMING. On one hand, I look forward to this ‘grown-up’ time, while on the other hand….I desperately want a back rub (with no groping). I honestly desire to please The Man, but really need to be cuddled and caressed, with no expectation. Of sex. Normally, I look forward to this Sunday morning date. Not so much tomorrow. WTF is wrong with me?

Did I mention that I got a job? Oh yeah…I did. Read about it here.

Anyway, I’d like some feedback. Does anyone out there have this issue? The Man chases you around during the week all the way through Saturday night, in anticipation of the “Sunday Morning Sex” with you thwarting the advances, not realizing he may get shut down in the morning? Sadly, this week, “the chase” in this household should really be an Olympic sport. The Man is on point with his game, and I should be fucking disqualified. Ugh.

Crap. What do I do? (if anyone says, “go to bed earlier” or “get more rest”…you’re fired as followers :-) Give me some insight. Seriously. Looking for ingredients to a spicy recipe people.

That said…I’m going to bed now.

xo,

N

Comments

  1. Look just tell him how you feel! Amanda has let me know several times that she just wants a back rub and nothing more. I can truly say that he will understand. And just catch him off guard later in the week one night.

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